Category: Social

Experiencing a Small Miracle

Posted by – July 3, 2009

People can be split into two groups: those who are planning to experience a small miracle and those who already experiencing/-ed the miracle of parenting.

This week I have transitioned from the first group into the second, and it is an exciting feeling, much more pleasant then I (even being a hopeless optimist) ever expected.

And there are very clear reasons for this amazing and easy transition:

  1. Pregnancy preparation courses for couples lasting 4 days (over two weekends) of Dr. R. Šemeta, and follow up ability to call their professional staff to ask questions as they arise. The school gave me knowledge about birth process and set minds that birth can be easy and natural. Then it was easy to decide that my role during giving birth is to be present and support the mother and the child in emotional (encouraging), physical (giving massages) and intellectual (focusing the brain towards pleasant states) ways.
  2. Supermama.lt forum, which has incredible rich knowledge base on any question you might have related to parenting, and serves as good will community. My wife gathered a lot of knowledge on preparation in advance as well during ongoing basis she checks the forum on the new challenges for the mother or the kid. I hope that each nation has similar communities to turn to.
  3. Our great friends – already parents, who share their experiences and positive attitudes.
  4. Hospital we decided to give birth – in peaceful city Trakai, 30 km away from Vilnius. Staff, facilities, professionalism, care, food – everything was perfect. And all – state funded. We only had to pay 17 euro per night to be able to stay overnight with my wife. That to add to the flowers and symbolic cake to the staff who made their effort for us to experience the best service.
  5. Lithuanian social system (I bet, the best in the world, I still need to check on Australia, as my ex-colleague Faraz fancied Australia as No1), which provides for the father one month of vacation paid by social system, and for mothers – up to two years. Our both employers are great supporters of parenting, and were not causing trouble (which you might expect to happened in Wild Corrupted Eastern Europe :) )

I wish for everyone in the first category (not yet parents) to move towards the transition into second group (already parents) without any fear, but with deep knowledge and preparation to help growing the next generation into energetic, fearless, responsible, creative and thought leaders, it seems our planet will need such people!

Lina, Arvilė, and Vilius, a proud father of one of the 300 new weekly registered babies in Vilnius area

Užgavėnės – Mardi Gras in Lithuania

Posted by – March 1, 2009

From the childhood I know that a special Tuesday comes around the time when winter is about to finish. Firstly, this day is about pancakes. You have to bake some, or at least get them from somewhere (canteen, mother, neighbors, name it)!

In Lithuanian this Tuesday carry Užgavėnės name, while internationally it is known as Mardi Gras, or Fat Tuesday.

There are other great reasons to celebrate Užgavėnės besides delicious pancakes.

Twofold carnival happens that day. For kids it is time to dress up in Halloween-type of outfit and go to neighbor houses, sing/dance and demand candy, pancakes, or money. Make as much noise as possible, and be first to visit people – to gather most goodies that evening!

For adults the carnival is a gathering to kick out winter from the yard – kill/burn Morė – the symbol of winter and all the bad&ugly. You get to experience a fight between Lašininis and Kanapinis, where victory of Kanapinis means approaching unavoidable spring. Often the carnival party is moved to the closest Sunday to the Užgavėnės.

Last week Lina and I celebrated Užgavėnės in Rumšiškės, Open Air Ethnographic Museum. Please enjoy the pictures of the event covering fair, pancakes, and greet together the coming spring after full white Winter!

First after Entering You Hit Fair

Wooden Pencils at Fair

Spring Flowers Greeting!

Fair Goodies

Lithuanian Encouraging and Entertaining Moto

Lithuanian Encouraging and Entertaining Moto

Celebrating Crowd in Carnival in Rumšiškės

Carnival Costumes

Bake Your Own Pancakes!

Carnival Costumes

Crowds of People Gathered to Celebrate

Riestainiai (or, Barankos) – Traditional Cookies

Medical Care for Event

A Stark – Another Symbol for Spring

Lovely Traditional Costumes

Happy Morė

Burning Morė means no more Winter!

The Bread

Posted by – February 16, 2009

I dedicate this post to my dearest friends Simas and Audronė who run a bakery of Lithuanian bread in Almaty, Kazakhstan.

Today I ate most delicious dark bread in Hotel Pušynas in Druskininkai, Lithuania. It is such a joy to have a piece of bread in own hands and appreciate its quality, fragrance and taste.

I have never baked bread myself, only cakes at most. My brother Vytenis used to bake when he was studying in USA. I remember visiting him and helping in the process and eating afterwards.

Banana Bread by Vytenis

My wife Lina in her childhood was helping grandmother shaping bread, before it was pushed in the oven.

Good friends Sarah and Gregou now in down-under Sidney are baking bread and have huuuge book of recipes I had pleasure to look though.

There is amazing quality of bread baked in Salantai town in Lithuania. Huge loafs of bread, enough for a family for a week.

Friend Jolita lived in the same dormitory as I in Denmark, and she shared her work at Danish Technical University on preventing bread to age, or to grow fungus.

Last Friday while driving for business I watched the following TED talk by Peter Reinhart from TASTE3 conference on bread baking. It made me excited, thinking and appreciating. I invite you to watch it as well and re-discover your own connection to what bread is to you and how it keeps transforming as it always did in material and spiritual way, along with technologies involved in making it tasty and healthy.

Note: Language sometimes can get too specific for non-native English speakers.

Thank you my life and the powers above for providing me with delicious bread today!

Crisis, Communism and Capitalism

Posted by – January 26, 2009

Capitalism has regular crises encoded.

Communism on the contrary – proper planning would regulate the economy.

Can it be true?

This idea came today from an old friend of mine. Well, why not to go back to books and study…

Iceland Today

Posted by – October 15, 2008

When mentioning Iceland till now I was always referring to my experience in 2006, when I visited country twice to assist the development of a student association BEST. Then I was amazed and surprised by the warmth of people, by beauty of nature.

Today I am again in Iceland. This time – traveling for business.

Iceland these days has a lot of coverage on the international news channels, especially if you follow British media.

Here I want to share my observations during last two days visit of Reykjavik. Let it be my subjective contribution making Iceland known as a great place.

After arrival I met my old friends from student association. Surprisingly, out of dozen I knew, only around half of them live in Iceland right now. Others are studying and work all over the globe – like Hawaii, New Zealand, France, or Denmark.

To my enjoyment locals (both friends and business partners) today are not declaring, but living by the saying – “in tough times see opportunities rather than problems”. I really was not expected so much of positive energy from Icelanders. However, bits of sadness shows through (let’s wait till the salary payment time this month – if people will not receive money, there might be riots; some suicides happened already because of bankruptcies..).

So what is happening? First of all, the official prices for USD or Euro in Icelandic Kroner rose +35 percent. On other hand, European airlines already inviting people to come to Iceland for Christmas shopping, I suggest to consider doing that – and help Iceland to export more! You can get Tax Returns, when was the last time you experienced that?

Two banks had troubles and were taken over by the state. The third one – Kaupthing – was perceived doing well, but was kneed by British antiterrorist law applied to its assets. It seems that nobody knows (but there are plenty of rumors) how wrong translation, wrong communication was misunderstood by British, and not dealt properly with both sides.

I have arrived here with two of my colleagues from UK and from I heard quite a good coverage on how people in UK see the case. It seems that there is no common understanding point from both media sides. At least the willingness to discuss among simple people exists, no outrages and inappropriate blames.

Anyway, right now when Icelander travels abroad upon presenting of the flight tickets at a bank he can exchange up to 250 GBP for personal use. If he uses his credit card in Europe, the exchange ratio happens to be double than one in Iceland. I was a small boy but still remember the times when Lithuanians had issues with currency – in Soviet Union, or in restored state in 1990s. Currency limitations are not a pleasant thing.

Icelandic people are disappointed and angry with European states, which turned back their shoulders and did not help their economy. Did you know that Iceland was the first country recognizing Lithuanian independence in 1991? And did you know that in 1944 the first country who recognized Icelandic independence was Russia? I would never imagine that. But it comes into different light, when Iceland goes and asks now for help from Russia.

Let’s move away from economics. Iceland has a population of 300 000 people. Everybody should know everybody. I am searching for a friend whom mobile phone is not working anymore, and email has changed. We met in 2002 in Skopje during an internships of IAESTE. It would be easy to find him in the world of Internet unless his name is John Smith. Or Icelandic equivalent – Bjorn Bjornsson :) . Let us see if I could dig the contacts again via my other friends in Iceland.

And finally- I would like to share my most enjoyable experience today – with the taxi driver Gunnar B. Gaistar. He drove me to the business meeting in the morning and I asked him if he could pick me up again in one hour time to drive to airport. He agreed and offered to keep my luggage in his car while I was in the meeting and even pay later for the first trip. Would you agree for such a thing? I did, and later had a lovely discussion with him on the way to airport about Icelandic habits and trust. Imagine the culture of the people, who come from a village in the west part of the Iceland, where 1000 people were coming only from two separated families. Trust and honor are essential to prosper in such environments.

And probably this is the same reason, why in the bars or airport shops it is enough to swipe your credit card without any authorization – pin or signature.

Definitely, I want to live in such society, especially when having experience of Kazakhstan or Brazil, and do you?